Pat the shrimp dry with paper towels to ensure a good sear, then set aside.
In a small bowl, whisk together honey, soy sauce, minced garlic, and chili flakes if using. Set aside.
Heat a large skillet over medium-high heat and add the neutral oil. Once shimmering, carefully add the shrimp in a single layer.
Sear the shrimp for about 1.5-2 minutes without moving, until they start to turn pink and edges are lightly golden.
Flip the shrimp and cook for another 1-2 minutes until they are just opaque and firm, with a slight curl.
Pour the prepared sauce over the shrimp. Let it bubble and reduce for about 1-2 minutes, stirring gently to coat evenly.
Watch as the sauce thickens, becoming glossy and sticky, clinging to each piece of shrimp—this is your cue to remove from heat.
Remove the skillet from heat and let the shrimp rest for a minute, allowing the flavors to meld and the sauce to set slightly.
Garnish with chopped green onions or sesame seeds if desired. Serve immediately for the best flavor and texture.